The Words We Wish We Could Say: Writing as a Love Letter to Motherhood

Motherhood is filled with moments so profound, so raw, that words often fail us in real time. We live them, we feel them, but we don’t always have the space to capture them in the moment. The way our child’s hand fits into ours, the way their sleepy voice whispers, “I love you,” the way we ache with love, exhaustion, and overwhelming gratitude all at once. These are the words we wish we could say, but sometimes, they remain unspoken.

Yet, there is power in writing—power in taking the fleeting and making it tangible, in turning memories into something we can hold onto forever. Writing is a love letter to motherhood, a way to preserve the beauty, the struggles, and the growth that come with it. It is a gift we give ourselves and a legacy we leave for our children.

Capturing the Moments That Matter

As moms, we often tell ourselves we’ll remember the little things—the way our child mispronounces a word, the first time they reach for us after a nightmare, the quiet moments when everything just feels right. But memories fade. Writing allows us to capture these everyday miracles before they slip away.

Writing doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It can be as simple as:

• A note in your phone about something your child said that made you laugh.

• A poem that reflects the love and sacrifice of motherhood.

• A short letter to your child about who they are in this season of life.

• A journal entry about a challenging day and what you learned from it.

Every piece of writing is a small act of remembrance, a love letter to this sacred journey.

Writing as a Form of Healing

Motherhood is beautiful, but it is also hard. There are days when exhaustion outweighs joy, when the noise never seems to stop, when you wonder if you’re doing any of it right. Writing offers a safe space to process emotions, to work through the hard days, and to remind yourself of the good ones.

Try writing:

• A letter to yourself on your hardest days, reminding yourself why you started this journey.

• A reflection on how you’ve grown as a mother and a woman.

• A gratitude list for the moments that make it all worth it.

Sometimes, the words we write are the encouragement we need to keep going.

A Legacy for Your Children

Imagine your child, years from now, flipping through pages filled with your thoughts, your love, your unspoken words. Imagine them reading about the day you found out you were pregnant, about the long nights rocking them to sleep, about the lessons they taught you without even knowing it. Your words become their history. Your love, immortalized.

This is why I created my 5-Minute Daily Prompt Journal for Moms.. It’s designed to help moms capture their journey in a way that feels effortless, meaningful, and deeply personal. Through simple daily prompts, you can create a keepsake for yourself and for your children to one day cherish.

You can access the journal through my website and social media bios.

Let’s Build This Together

Writing is not just for “writers.” It’s for every mom who has ever felt something so deeply that she wished she could hold onto it forever. I invite you to start small, to write without pressure, to embrace the beauty of your story. And if you need guidance, my journal is here to help.

Let’s continue this conversation—join my Facebook group where we share our motherhood journeys, our writings, and our memories together. And don’t forget to tune into my podcast, where I dive deeper into these topics and share more ways to make motherhood a story worth telling.

Your journey is worth remembering. Let’s write it down, together.

The Skin I leave Behind

A poem about my second trimester with you; the physical changes I noticed and the inner emotions I held as I evolved.

One chapter closes,

three months marking the first phase—

a seed planted, taking root.

As we bloom into what comes next,

I begin to peel in quiet surrender,

as if each flake of skin knows

it is no longer mine to keep.

In my planted season,

I was nestled in familiar skin,

a reflection I had known

for twenty-five years.

But now, the mirror tells a different story.

Stretch marks etch themselves in hidden places,

writing new chapters upon my breasts.

My skin is uncertain—

my face glows with something sacred,

yet my neck darkens, shadowed by change.

I am shedding,

not just my skin, but a version of myself,

exchanging one form for another,

a quiet metamorphosis.

My lower back aches

beneath the weight of generations,

muscles straining

beneath the task of creation.

I feel subtle flutters,

soft whispers from within—

is it you, or my body

voicing its quiet hunger?

This body is no longer my own.

The skin I leave behind

is not a loss, but an offering—

proof that I existed,

that I evolved,

that I became.

Ways To Stay Connected!

Thank you for reading this poem and I hope you enjoyed it! This series can be enjoyed on my blog. You can also enjoy me reading these poems on my Instagram, Facebook, and Podcast, where I allow my listeners to hear the emotions behind the words.

Stay tuned for my next poem in this series releasing next Thursday!

I can’t wait to share it with you.

I Would Love To Hear From You!

If this poem resonated with any part of your motherhood journey, I would love to know how! Connect me on my Facebook Group: Go-Get.Hers and share a piece of your story.

Until next time,

The Mom Memory Keeper

“Preserving motherhood journeys for generations.”

The Moments We Swore We’d Remember

There are moments in motherhood we swear will stay with us forever. The way our baby’s tiny fingers wrapped around ours. The weight of their head on our chest, their breath steady and warm. The way their laughter filled a room, making the whole world feel lighter.

But then time does what time always does—it moves forward, carrying us with it. And suddenly, those once-crystal-clear memories start to blur at the edges.

It happens slowly.

You try to recall the exact way they used to mispronounce a word, but it slips just out of reach. The lullaby you hummed night after night becomes a little harder to hear in your mind. You look at an old picture and realize that moment—the one that felt so ordinary at the time—is now irreplaceable.

And you ache for the details you swore you’d never forget.

Why We Need to Hold On

Motherhood is a constant letting go. From the moment we first hold them to the moment they take their first steps away from us, we are always in transition. And it’s beautiful—but it’s also heartbreaking.

Because the truth is, we don’t just forget the moments. We forget ourselves in them.

The mother we were when we rocked them to sleep at 3 AM. The mother we were when we whispered you’ve got this to ourselves in the mirror. The mother we were when we felt overwhelmed, exhausted, and in love all at once.

Capturing our story isn’t just for them—it’s for us. It’s so we can look back one day and say, I was there. I lived those moments fully. And I remember.

How to Capture the Moments (Without Overwhelm)

I know what you’re thinking—but how do I even find time to document my motherhood when I’m barely keeping up?

It doesn’t have to be complicated. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be real.

Here are some simple, meaningful ways to hold onto the moments before they slip away:

1. The One-Sentence Journal

Some days, writing a full journal entry feels impossible. But one sentence? That’s doable. Write down one small moment each day—something your child said, how you felt, a detail you want to remember.

One day, those single sentences will tell the most beautiful story.

2. The “Five Senses” Memory Trick

When you want to preserve a moment in your mind, stop and focus on your five senses:

• What do you see?

• What do you hear?

• What do you feel?

• What do you smell?

• What do you taste?

This practice helps your brain anchor memories in a deeper way—so when you look back, you can recall more than just the moment itself, but how it felt to be there.

3. Voice Notes & Videos

Sometimes, writing doesn’t capture the fullness of a moment like hearing it can. Take quick voice notes when your child says something funny or sweet. Record short videos—not just of them, but of you talking about motherhood in real time. One day, these recordings will be a treasure.

4. The “Future Letter” Method

Write letters to your child at different milestones—first steps, first day of school, a random Tuesday when you just love them so much you have to put it into words. Tuck them away for them to read later. They will hold pieces of you they never got to know.

5. The 5-Minute Daily Prompt Journal

If you’re looking for a way to easily and consistently document your journey, I created a 5-Minute Daily Prompt Journal for Moms to help you do just that. Simple, guided prompts to help you pause, reflect, and capture the heart of motherhood—without the overwhelm.

Because your story matters. Your moments matter. You matter.

One Day, You’ll Be Glad You Did

Mama, I know it feels like you’ll always remember. I know life is moving fast, and the thought of adding one more thing to your plate might feel like too much.

But one day, when the house is quiet and the little hands aren’t so little anymore, you’ll wish you had captured just a few more moments.

Not for social media. Not for anyone else.

But for you.

So that one day, you can sit with your memories, hold them in your hands, and whisper to yourself…

I remember. I was there. And it was beautiful.

Let’s Hold Onto Motherhood Together

📖 Grab your copy of the 5-Minute Daily Prompt Journal for Moms—now available! Find it on my website and social media bios.

💬 Join my private Facebook group—a space for moms to connect, reflect, and share their stories.

🎙️ Listen to the Go-Get.Hers Unfiltered Podcast—where we dive into real, raw conversations about motherhood, memory-keeping, and everything in between.

Because your story is worth remembering. And I’m here to help you hold on to it.

Until next time,

The Mom Memory Keeper

“Preserving motherhood journeys for generations.”