As a mom, one of the most memorable stories we have is the one that began it all for us: The story of how we became pregnant! No one story is the same and that’s what makes motherhood uniquely beautiful. Some moms have the “Oh crap! How did this happen? I’m pregnant!” story. Other moms have the triumphant sigh of relief “Thank you, God! I’m finally pregnant” story. While a handful have the “I’ve planned for this and it’s right on time” story. Whatever the story, one thing that we all share is that we have became moms.

For me, the decision to become a mom wasn’t one I made lightly. I knew it would be one of the biggest, most life-altering choices ever. If I can be real with you, a lot of my decision to become pregnant was from seeing many girl bosses turned mommies on social media and watching how they “did it all.” One thing I didn’t consider at that time was how people love to post the best versions of themselves and not always their reality. It was a true reality hit after my daughter was born but that is a story for another day.

I’ve always known I wanted to be a mom. Even as a little girl, I’d dream about the day I’d have a family of my own. But knowing you want something and knowing when you’re ready for it are two very different things.

How I Knew It Was the Right Time

My husband and I are what you may call childhood sweethearts. We met when I was 14 and he was 13. I don’t know how you would classify dating at that age, but we held hands and texted every day. So, for us, it was official LOL. Being so young, and having a long-term relationship was too icky. So, after a summer-long “relationship” we broke up and for the following 5 years, we remained just friends.

In 2017 we met back in college and have been inseparable ever since. In 2021 we got married, got into our careers, traveled the world, and bought our first home. Life was busy, as it always is, with work, relationships, and personal goals. I kept thinking, When things settle down, that’s when I’ll try.

But here’s the thing: life doesn’t really “settle down.” What shifted for me wasn’t a perfect set of circumstances; it was my perspective. And a perspective shift was exactly what I needed.

I am a planner at heart. If I could, I would love to plan out the rest of my life. I know you’re probably laughing at that unrealistic idea. Trust me, if there is one thing I’ve learned over and over again being a mom, is how you think something will turn out, it rarely ever does.

At the age of 25, I planned out how I wanted to have kids. My first child would be born when I was 26, then 28, and the last two at ages 29 and 30. I’m 27 right now with a beautiful 10-month baby girl and a precious baby who is a giggling angel in heaven. Plans truly change when life stops. That’s another part of my story I look forward to sharing with you too.

In 2022 I wanted my baby plans to begin! What I wasn’t expecting to feel was fear. I was thriving in my real estate career. My husband and I were enjoying being young and newly married. I started to think about how all of that could change with just one baby.

So, I started to push that timeline back bit by bit. But that only caused this internal war of emotions to grow: should I leap? Or should I delay?

One day, in my quiet time with God, I had a special moment shared between the two of us—one of those moments where the world slows down just enough for me to hear clearly from Him. I found myself smiling and at peace when He began to show me images of what life would look like with a baby in it. He reminded me how my husband and I were so full of love that we needed to pour that into a beautiful creation perfectly blended with the two of us.

And then it hit me: I wasn’t waiting for the right time; I was waiting for the right feeling.

That feeling of readiness wasn’t about having everything figured out—it was about a deep desire to create something beautiful, share my love in a new way, and embrace a new chapter of my life, no matter how messy it might get.

The Journey Ahead

Deciding to try for a baby was a deeply personal and emotional moment for me. It marked the beginning of a journey filled with anticipation, hope, and a lot of learning. And while I didn’t know everything then—and still don’t—I knew I was ready to start.

For every mom, that moment of readiness looks different. For some, it’s a conversation with a partner. For others, it’s a moment of clarity, like the one I had. And sometimes, it sneaks up on you when you least expect it.

What About You?

There’s no universal checklist or perfect timing to becoming a mom. It’s about trusting yourself and your heart.

I’d love to hear your stories:

• What inspired you to become a mom?

• How did you know it was the right time for you?

• How did you find out that you were pregnant?

Share your thoughts in the comments below—or share them with us in the Facebook Group! I’d love for this to be a space where we all learn from and encourage one another.

Here’s to motherhood and all the moments that make it magical.

Next time, I’ll be sharing my crazy emotional roller coaster of trying to become pregnant and the test that changed it all.

Until next time,
Dominique Johnson
Founder of Go-Get.Hers

Welcome to Go-Get.Hers!

Motherhood cannot be described in a single word or phrase. It’s a mixed bag: It’s beautiful, transformative, empowering, unconditional, joyful, rewarding, and legacy-building. At the same time, it’s challenging, sacrificial, messy, emotional, exhausting, patience-testing, and, let’s be honest, downright overwhelming at times. From sleepless nights and messy kitchens to first steps and proud mom moments, this journey is one of a kind. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to go through it alone.

That’s why I’m so thrilled to welcome you to Go-Get.Hers, a community where moms come together to share, support, and grow. Whether you’re a first-time mom, a seasoned pro, or somewhere in between, this is your space to connect, laugh, cry, and thrive with women who understand exactly what you’re going through.

We all share this wonderful title of “mom.” One of the most beautiful aspects of our motherhood journey is experiencing it in an assortment of ways. That’s what I want to pull together and present to all moms: different techniques, unique perspectives, varying backgrounds, empowering testimonies, struggles made into strengths, and so much more.

Why I Created Go-Get.Hers

As moms, we often wear so many hats: caregiver, teacher, chef, chauffeur, therapist, and so much more. It’s easy to feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. It’s easy to feel like we are the only woman on this planet who is going through IT. It’s easy to lose our voice, identity, and purpose when we have to do so much pouring out. It’s easy to feel like the world won’t slow down enough for us to just breathe when we lose that precious baby during pregnancy. All of that and so much more is a part of my motherhood story. I felt the weight of it all before realizing something critical—I didn’t have to do it all alone.

That’s when the idea for Go-Get.Hers was born. I wanted to create a space where moms like you and me could share our stories, celebrate our wins, and lean on each other during the tough days. Because motherhood is not a solo sport; it’s a team effort. We don’t just have to survive in motherhood, we can thrive in it!

What You’ll Find Here

At Go-Get.Hers, we’re all about:

1. Honest Conversations: No sugarcoating here. We’ll dive into the joys, struggles, and everything in between. This is the space for the real, raw, and uncut mom in you!

2. Inspiration and Encouragement: Stories and insights to remind you just how strong and capable you are. Whatever you are comfortable sharing, we would love to hear it. Bring us into your world and share your journey.

3. Practical Tips: From parenting hacks to self-care strategies, we can all help each other navigate the chaos. Let’s be honest, have you mastered your “me time” yet? I haven’t!

4. Community Connections: Meet other moms who just get it.

Why Every Mom Needs a Tribe

No one understands the highs and lows of motherhood quite like another mom. Your tribe—your people—can be the difference between feeling overwhelmed and feeling empowered. They’re the ones who remind you it’s okay to not be okay, to ask for help, to take a break, and to celebrate the small victories.

That’s what Go-Get.Hers is all about: creating a tribe where moms come together to lift each other up, share their experiences, and cheer each other on.

Let’s Go Get It, Together

This is just the beginning of an incredible journey, and I’m so glad you’re here. I look forward to sharing more of my story with you and hearing yours as well. Let’s build a community where we support each other, grow together, and remind ourselves daily that we’re stronger than we think.

Here’s to motherhood, friendship, and going after our goals—together.

What’s one thing you’re navigating right now as a mom? Drop it in the comments or share in our Facebook Group—I’d love to hear your story.

With love and support,
Dominique Johnson
Founder of Go-Get.Hers